I Have To Tell You Something Really Bad (Ep. 80 - Howard's End)

This Week's Guest: Jason Merrell

My guest this week is Jason Merrell, who was desperate to leave his repressive religious community. Finally, he thought he'd found a way -- it just required that he make a deal with his parents. That seemed easy enough. But it was a deal that wound up nearly costing him his life.

This Week's Recommendation: Clueless

Like Jason, I missed a lot of the 90s, not because I was nearly dying in South America but because I was a child shut-in. It wasn't until many years later that I discovered one of my favorite artifacts of the 1990s -- my recommendations this week, the movie Clueless.

Watching it years later, it's hard to believe it was actually made in the 90s, because it's so aggressively of its time that it feels like a postmodern parody of the decade. Of course, if you listened to the recent episode with John Federico, you'll know that the story is actually based on the novel Emma. So it's not just of the 90s, it's also of the eighteen-teens.

This probably tells us something about ourselves -- that although the corsets and hats might change, people themselves really don't. Youthful pride always has been and always will be a thing, as well as stubborn lovers and social awkwardness.

Entertainment can serve as a sort of universal language, a way to talk when you don't know what to say or you don't understand what you're hearing. For instance, it might be hard to get to know someone new, but start a conversation about, say, Ghostbusters and you'll probably learn everything you need to know about each other pretty fast.

Current culture is a rich vein for making those kinds of connections, but there's also value to be found if you mine for pop culture that's no longer popular. Digging down to something old or obscure means you'll be a bit lonely when you bring up the novels of Jane Austen or the contralto of Alison Moyet. But it's all worth it for those moments when you find someone else who's wandered as deeply as you have, following paths dug by explorers decades or even centuries before you were born. 

Clips of Stuff We Talked About

Brian and Sally explode over their confusing affair with Max. Surprise surprise.
The official music video for Alanis Morissette's "You Oughta Know" from her 3rd studio album, Jagged Little Pill. The song was written by Morissette along with Glen Ballard. Alanis Morissette's, "Jagged Little Pill" turns 20 years old this year! Re-visit the classic album from Alanis here! https://itunes.apple.com/album/jagged-little-pill/id79989523 Connect with Alanis Morissette here!
Movie legend Rock Hudson passed away in 1985 following battle with AIDS.
John Travolta presents Vanessa Redgrave with the Oscar for Supporting Actress for Julia at the 50th Academy Awards. Hosted by Bob Hope. See more 1978 Oscar highlights: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLJ8RjvesnvDMp7xxPWLxJpWNxhyeSTriD Become an Oscar Insider: http://www.oscars.org/insider/ Check out our Academy Originals: https://www.youtube.com/user/AcademyOriginals ABOUT THE ACADEMY The Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences is the world's preeminent movie-related organization, with a membership of more than 6,000 of the most accomplished men and women working in cinema.
Music video by Alison Moyet performing Love Resurrection. (C) 1984 Sony Music Entertainment UK Limited under exclusive license to BMG Rights Management (UK) Limited http://vevo.ly/j7C2NX
Oh l'amour Oh l'amour Mon amour What's a boy in love Supposed to do? Oh l'amour Broke my heart Now I'm aching for you Mon amour What's a boy in love Supposed to do? Looking for you You were looking for me Always reaching for you You were too blind to see Oh, love of my heart Why leave me alone?
Watch the official music video for Rod Stewart - "The Killing Of Georgie" (Part I & II) - - - - Get Rod Stewart music: iTunes - http://bit.ly/1fuLJFp - - - - http://www.rodstewart.com/ https://www.facebook.com/rodstewart https://twitter.com/rodstewart
A scene from the Merchant/Ivory film, "Howard's End".
Simon and Wei-Tung are a gay couple living together in Manhattan, but Wei-Tungs parents in Taiwan are always pressuring him to marry. His tenant, a young Chinese girl needs to marry an American citizen to obtain her green card, so a deal is made.

Music

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