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The X-Men aren't even TRYING to hide the gay subtext

September 7, 2025 Matthew Baume

When I told people I was working on a video about the gayest moments from the X-Men movies, the usual response was "oh geez, how do you even choose?" There are, it turns out, a lot of them. (That video is now live, by the way!)

But I think my favorite is in X2, the second film. Bobby Drake (a character who has since come out as gay in the comics) is visiting his parents, and awkwardly delivering the news that he's a mutant.

"This is all my fault," his mother says, echoing lines like the mom in Edge of Seventeen who asks her gay son, "what did I do wrong?"

"How long have you known you're ..." she asks, echoing the scene in the indie gay film Get Real when one kid asks another the same question, only swapping "dodgy" for "mutant."

And of course, there's the memorable line, "have you tried NOT being a mutant?" I love that one, because it's not even the first time something has parodied it; a few years earlier, when Buffy's mom learned the truth about her, she asked, "have you tried NOT being the slayer?"

The X2 scene's subtext is so blindingly obvious that everyone knew exactly what they were doing when the filmed it. According to Shawn Ashmore, who plays Bobby, they referred to it as "the coming out scene," and he speculated that it might insinuate even more about Bobby Drake -- in fact, he said in one interview that he'd be interesting in returning to the character and having him come out as gay.

So will we get a gay Iceman in the movies? Well, it's been ten years since Shawn gave that interview and it hasn't happened yet; and Disney doesn't seem particularly eager to add anything gay to their superhero movies, so I'm not holding my breath for anything official. But there's nothing stopping the fan from deciding that he's been queer this whole time. After all, we'd know better than some heterosexual in a suit in Burbank.

What's New This Week

  • New video about what makes X-Men so gay is now live!

  • We watched a bunch of fun behind-the-scenes X-Men clips on Twitch last weekend.

  • On this week's Sewers of Paris, I'm chatting with writer Anthony Olivera and actor JP Karliak about what it's like to be a part of bringing X-Men stories to live.

  • I've been dogsitting a lot lately, and I'm posting pups in my Instagram stories, if you like to look at pictures of dogs having a fantastic time.

What's Coming Up

  • I'm already chugging away on the next YouTube video -- it's about the incredibly troubled production of one of the greatest gay films ever made, Kiss of the Spider Woman.

  • On the next Twitch livestream, we're watching 1982's Victor/Victoria.

  • I've got some very fun British guests on an upcoming Sewers of Paris.

Stuff I've Been Enjoying Lately

  • Here's a fantastic side-by-side comparison of Airplane! and the movie that inspired it, Zero Hour.

  • I think I've shared this before, but here's Judy Garland's first appearance on Carson. She shares a story about the Vaudeville performer Hadji Ali that is a real show-stopper.

  • Have you ever seen a binturong? They're one of those animals that moves like it's a theater student doing an improv exercise.

Have you tried NOT being a mutant? →

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The Sewers of Paris is a podcast about how queer lives are shaped by our favorite books, movies, music, and shows. Each week, guests open up about their secret struggles, hidden passions, and surprising triumphs by plucking a piece of entertainment from their past and answering the question: What’s the entertainment that changed your life?

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Each week on Defining Marriage, hosts Matt Baume and James Morris chat about what's happening with marriage equality, featuring frequent digressions into pop culture, silly banter, and the jokes and quibbles that have kept them together as a couple for over a decade.

The first eighteen episodes of the podcast contain the complete audiobook version of the book Defining Marriage, which traces the decades-long evolution of marriage through the personal stories of those who lived through it, featuring personal insights from the lives of Evan Wolfson, Dan Savage, Ken Mehlman, Dustin Lance Black, and many more. 

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Revisit the iconic '90s drama My So-Called Life, one episode at a time. Every week, host Matt Baume & his guests delve into the teen angst, the grown-up turmoil, and the endless flannel of the 90s -- and examine the show's impact on television and our lives.

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